Don’t Leave Him Waiting

When calling men it’s important to make sure that you focus all of your attention on the man at the other end of the receiver. Make sure that there are no distractions when you call, and you might find that telling your girlfriends not to call because you will be on the phone is the best way to prevent interruptions.

Calling man, and then putting him on hold so that you can take other phone calls is rude and disrespectful, especially if you are at the beginning of a relationship. If there is an emergency phone call that you must take, however, a good rule of thumb is to not leave him waiting more than 30 seconds.

When someone calls or comes to the door and you absolutely must take the call or answer the door, it is better to apologize to the man and ask if you can call him back rather than ask him to wait. Though some men might wait out of common courtesy, it is not recommended ask him to do so. He might become bored, distracted, and feel that you aren’t genuinely interested in him. Causing him to lose interest in you. If you do need to go or put him on hold for 30 seconds, be sure to apologize and reassure him that you do want to speak to him.

He Picked up the Phone, Now What?

You might find that you spend a great deal of time worrying about calling men. Once you gather your courage, pick up the phone, and dial his number, you might find that your worry shifts to finding subjects to discuss. When calling men, it’s important to have a general idea about what you’re going to talk about. Always remember to be courteous, as well as self-confident. Confidence is the most important quality that you can have when speaking on the phone.

Let the conversation flow naturally. Don’t make yourself appear obnoxious or overtly flirtatious. Relax and be yourself and speak with a kind, respectful tone. Some women revert to immature behaviors when they are nervous and this won’t help encourage a relationship. Don’t talk about other people, as this will make you appear to be a gossip.

Calling men is different from talking to girlfriends on the phone. Your girlfriends might want to hear everything that’s going on your favorite reality television show or in your ex boyfriend’s life, but chances are he won’t. Talk about neutral topics, or better yet, talk about him. Ask him about himself, his interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. The more you ask questions about him, the more he will feel that you are genuinely interested in him. By keeping the conversation centered on him, you’ll find that there are plenty of things to talk about.

How to Get His Phone Number

When you meet a guy that you are interested in, it’s important to get his phone number. Today, many women are calling men and pursuing guys who interest them. Women are more liberated than they were several decades ago, and there is nothing socially unacceptable about a woman asking a man for his telephone number. The only obstacle a woman needs to climb over is her own fear.

Many men are relieved to have a woman make the first move and will readily give her his phone number. Remember that asking a man for his phone number is the same as when a man asks a woman for hers. If a man isn’t interested he won’t give his number out. When asking a man for his phone number, you must be prepared for rejection, just as when a man is rejected and doesn’t get a woman’s phone number. By preparing for rejection, and being self-confident you can ask any man for his phone number.

Though you might feel that there is a secret way to get a man’s phone number, the best method is to simply ask for it directly. You can just say something to the effect of “I really enjoyed talking with you. Could I have your phone number and we could talk about this again?” Confidence and not taking rejection too seriously will enable you to ask any man for his phone number.

When Should You Call

Once you have obtained a man’s phone number you might be wondering when you should call. Calling men too soon after getting a phone number can make you appear eager. It’s best to wait at least two to three days before making the first move and calling. Waiting longer than two or three days could prove to not work in your favor as the man might have difficulty remembering you. Some women make the mistake of getting a man’s phone number, then calling him within ten minutes. This takes the element of mystery out of the relationship and isn’t a good idea.

When you make the first phone call, always ask the man if it is a good time for him to talk on the phone. This ensures that he will be relaxed during your conversation. If you catch him at a bad time, he might feel obliged to talk on the phone as to not appear rude. He could lose interest in the conversation and your relationship might not have the best start. If he says that he is busy, offer to call him back at a better time. He will appreciate your consideration and you’ll find that when you call back you’ll have a more enjoyable conversation.

Respect His Time

One of the most important aspects to consider when calling men is to respect his time. Women generally love to talk on the phone much more than men do. Women often spend countless hours talking with friends, while men tend to keep their conversations brief and to the point. In fact, it is often the first sign of love when a man changes his behavior and begins staying on the phone for hours on end. For many men, this is a sign that they have strong feelings for a woman, and that they are ready to take their relationship to the next level. If calling a man for the first time, however, you should respect his time and not stay on the phone for a long time.

A good length of time for a first phone call is approximately 15 minutes. This gives you a chance to speak on the phone without appearing pushy. Always ask him if it is a good time to speak, and if he says it isn’t, politely offer to call him back at a later time. You want him to feel that he is talking to you from his own free will, and that he is not being kept on the phone longer than he is comfortable with. Women who are used to speaking on the phone for hours at a time might feel that a fifteen minute phone call is a failure. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Rather than a failure, an easily flowing, fifteen-minute phone call should be seen as the first step in a successful relationship.

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